Make things happen or things will make itself happen to you!

Personal development is a lifelong process. It's a way for people to assess their skills and qualities, consider their aims in life and set goals in order to realize and maximize their potential.

Make things happen for yourself because no one is going to make it happen for you. Sure, there will be certain people in your corner to support you, but you also have to distinguish between the good and evil actions those supporters bring. What you may consider to be valuable, it may not be to others so make sure to surround yourself with people who have the same values or similar goals as yourself. In order for you to gain personal development you have to set goals and achieve them on a daily basis. It is easier said than done. I know this because I am in the same boat. Sometimes it's better to be negative and not give 100% because it's "less work.” In actuality and reality, we're damaging ourselves by not fully investing into "self" and what we want to accomplish. We often put this wall up and become comfortable with how life "is" instead of how life "should be.”

Do not let those thoughts aka the DEVIL win! Kill them with perseverance and strive to be the best you! The BEST thing you can do is develop yourself because you MAKE or BREAK you. Your life is determine because of YOU, not nobody else! So stop blaming mama, stop blaming daddy, stop blaming that boyfriend/girlfriend who broke your heart three years ago! Take responsibility and blame YOURSELF FOR YOUR ACTIONS, AND THE OUTCOME. It's all up to you. You win some, you lose some but you live to fight another day! Pops said that best from the movie "Friday.”Make things happen or things will make itself happen to you! That's my motto ;)